Finding Acceptance in Loss.

Finding Acceptance in Loss.

“I don’t want to feel pain anymore, how do I make it go away?”. This was a client request just months after the loss of her mother. She wanted to reach a place of acceptance ASAP and no longer wanted to feel the grief emotions. I understand this because I did a...
Why Grievers Don’t Need Your Advice.

Why Grievers Don’t Need Your Advice.

Admittedly, it’s difficult to know what to say to somebody who is grieving. But offering advice is the one thing that makes me do the *eye roll*. You may well have had experienced loss yourself and feel that you “understand” other people’s grief. I’m going to put this...
Turning Shit to Fertiliser.

Turning Shit to Fertiliser.

“When shit happens, turn it into fertiliser” – Kute Blackson. I’ve always loved this quote. It takes the “making lemonade out of lemons” concept to a whole new level, don’t you think? The fact is that shit happens and we have little control over most things in...
It’s Nothing Personal.

It’s Nothing Personal.

Most of the time, when your job is being made redundant, it’s nothing personal. It isn’t a reflection of you, or your abilities. And you certainly aren’t being made redundant – your job is! Typical reasons for redundancy include: The job you were hired to do no longer...